Various Titles for this paper:
Why are my children addicted to the phone
How to quickly fix child phone addiction
HOW TO QUIT TECHNOLOGY
TECHNOLOGY DETOX (100% CURE)
PARENTS GUIDE TO RESPONSIBLE TECHNOLOGY AT HOME
INTRO / BACKSTORY
---------------
As a people watcher I began noticing a strange phenomenon in 2003 overseas which was not happening in Canada at that time... People were uncontrollably it seemed looking and holding mobile phonees for no reason. I noticed each and every day on the train that impulsively upon sitting down roughly 90% of people would remove thier mobile phone, swipe it, notice nothing is ew on the screen and put it ack in theri pocket or bag... The more strange observation was within less than 90 seconds, they would again pull out the phone, swipe, look and put away again... This continued indefinitely in most cases. It was at this point I made athe conscious decision > I WOULD NOT BE A VICTIM OF WHATEVER THIS PHENOMENON WAS....
FAST FORWARD 14 YEARS AND THIS MENTALITY IS APPARENT ON A MUCH MORE CONCERNING SCALE..
SO HOW DO YOU REMOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR LOVED ONES FROM THIS TECH-RETARDATION? THE FOLLOWING NOTES WILL SHED LIGHT ON THE SOURCE OF THE PROBLEM AND THE METHODS TO FIX/CURE IT. PLEASE READ ON.
A FEW THINGS TO REMEMBER::::
yOUR THE ONE IN CHARGE OF YOUR OWN DECISIONS
yOUR THE GOOD PERSON IN THIS SCENARIO
BE PREPARED TO BE FIRM AND ACCEPT NO EXCUSES
wHAT IN GERNERAL IS HAPPENING?
"tHE DEVICES WE USE ARE BECOMING HUMANITIES LARGEST VICE"
sIGNS YOUR FAMILY IS AFFECTED...
-lACK OF CONVERSATION/COMMUICATION (IF ANY)J
-iF DEVICES(S) ARE REMOVED, EMOTIONS FLARE
-cONSTANTLY ON DEVICES
-iNABILITY TO FOCUS ON TALKS
-iRRATABLITLTY, RESTLESSNESS
iF YOU RECONIZE ANY OF THE ABOVE WITHIN YOUR ENVIRONMENT AND ARE CONCERNED... PLEASE READ ON TO THE NEXT SECTION...
WHY DOES THIS ADDICTION HAPPEN?
WHY ARE MANY HUMAN BEINGS NOT ABLE TO RESIST THE ATTRACTION?
1. FREQUENCIES
2. ATTRACTIONS
3. Fomo
4. SHAPE/fEELING
5. Emf aTTRACTION
========================================================
wHAT HAS HAPPENED?
1. DEVICES PURCHASED WITHOUT MEASURING THE CONSEQUENCES
2. ACQUIRED UNDER THE GUISE OF HELPING IN CASE OF EMERNCY WHEN IN REAQLITY THE DEVICES ARE HARMFUL TO HUMAN HEALTH (SEE OWNERS MANUAL OF YOUR DEVICE FOR CONFIRMATION)
3. PEER PRESSURES OR THE 'nORM' HAVE INFLUENCED CHILDREN AND AND PARENTS BEFORE PERCEIVING THE DANGER
4. MASS MEDIA HAS CONVINCED THE POPULATION FOR LARGE PROFITS.
'aVERAGE COST PER DEVICE= $75 PER MONTH'
'90% OF PEOPLE HAVE A MOBILE DEVICE'
sIGNS YOUR FAMILY IS AFFECTED...
-lACK OF CONVERSATION/COMMUICATION (IF ANY)J
-iF DEVICES(S) ARE REMOVED, EMOTIONS FLARE
-cONSTANTLY ON DEVICES
-iNABILITY TO FOCUS ON TALKS
-iRRATABLITLTY, RESTLESSNESS
iF YOU RECONIZE ANY OF THE ABOVE WITHIN YOUR ENVIRONMENT AND ARE CONCERNED... PLEASE READ ON TO THE NEXT SECTION...
WHY DOES THIS ACTUALLY HAPPEN?
IN SIMPLE TERMS, THEIR ARE PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL SCIENCES AT WORK. YEARS OF EXTENSIVE RESEARCH DESIGNED TO COMPEL USERS TO 'PLAY' WITH THE DEVICE ARE OBVIOUSLY BECOMING APPARENT. A BASIC LITMUS TEST TO DETERMINE IF YOUR A VICTIM IS... 'iS THE USER USING THE DEVICE AS A EFFECTIVE TOOL OR IS THE DEVICE USING THE USER...?' MOST PEOPLE CAN WITHOUT BIAS SAY THE LATTER.
BIG BUSINESS AND MEDIA HAVE ULTRA EFFECTIVELY (LITERALLY) BRAINWASHED CONSUMERS TO PURCHASE DEVICES BUILT TO SUBJUGATE THE USER MENTALLY AND SIMULTANEOUSLY USE THE DATA RETRIEVED FROM THE USERS DAILY HABITS AND BEHAVIOURS TO FURTHER EXPLOIT THE USER THROUGH THE DATA RECEIVED -
iN ESSENCE, USERS ARE PAYING TO PROVIDE THE DATA NEEDED TO PINPOINT EXACTLY WHAT TECHNOLOGIES ARE IN FACT CONTROLLING THEM.
THE ENTIRE PROCESS IS ACTUALLY QUITE BRILLIANT, AS THE ENTIRE OPERATION IS IN PLAIN SIGHT, YET NO ONE SEEMS TO NOTICE.
IN MORE BASIC TERMINOLOGY, THE DATA (THE THINGS YOU DO ON THE DEVICE) IS SENT TO THE NETWORK IN A DIGITAL FORM. THAT INFORMATION ALLOWS 'THEM' TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT USERS MORE BASED ON THE BEHAVIOURS IN THE DATA. *THIS IS ANOTHER TOPIC WHICH COULD BE A FULL VOLUME IN ITSELF....
When/If you are able to grasp the fact that devious techniques are at work against you (the user) you should feel concerned for your own well-being and health as well as those around you, who more than likely are completely oblivious.
==================================================
In the next section we look at how to minimize/detox your technology usage
============================================
how to minimise/detox your technology usage?
Assuming you are now conscious of the fact you are essentially an unconscious participant in a science experiment, we will now look towards how to ween off this addiction. There are a few realities you must come to accept during this process...
1. Realise you are in control of your actions
2. Realise this will be a mental challenge
3. You are smarter than a computer
4. You are a human, not a machine
5. You are the good person in this scenario (Although if you are the one stepping up in the family to make these changes you are about to be temporarily hated)
6. If you make excuses, you will not succeed! This is a 'cold turkey' method
Now is the time to decide what side of the fence you are on... If we can agree right now, without hesitation that the general population has an overwhelming 'problem' and you want to easily solve the problem for the benefit of yourself, your family or humanity at large then congratulations, your about to take a few simple steps that are necissary to come back to reality quickly- Be excited! There is a new beginning directly ahead!
=============================================
Steps:::
Options are provided based on specific situations below, each option will have point form steps to succeed. Following each option, detailed notes will follow with solutions for the issues you may encounter during the process as well as additional helpful insight.
Option 1. If You do not require the phones for business purposes (Primarily for children, students)
1. Disconnect plans immediately. No excuses. This includes - Internet, Cable, Wifi
2. Remove all devices (pack them up in a secure location)
3. Schedule a family meeting
Notes:::
Step 1 requires disconnection of ALL signals in the household. You may encounter 'disconnection' fees by the providers in an attempt to thwart your progress. If you encounter this please refer to the appendix for tips on dealing with this nonsense. I have included removal of the cable television, this should also be disconnected for quick and optimal results.
Step 2 requires confiscation/removal of the devices. This includes all phones active on a plan or non-active (old phones laying around) , as well as video game consoles and televisions can be removed. All modems and networking peripherals should also be removed. This is an 'out of sight, out of mind' technique which will help everyone involved. All this technology should boxed up and be moved to an external location if possible..
Step 3 requires a family meeting to be scheduled. This is normally announced on confiscation/removal of the cellular phones, as this is the most challenging portion of the curing process. During the meeting discussion topics include:
-Discuss observations including the amount of wasted time, laziness and overall excessive usage of devices in the household (citing the obvious facts will help gain acceptance) You want those involved to ultimately realise the problem they have.
-Discuss Dangers including the overall social effects everyone can see. Show warning on cellular phone manual. See appendix for a list of popular devices.
-Discuss the monetary benefits. This is a great way to gain acceptance. For example the average family has 4 devices or $300 per month for phones alone, this can be a future family after x amount of months. Alternatively this can be used for household items, clothing, education funds etc.
- Discuss behaviours including the lack of respect shown when 'interrupting' someone on the phone or the zombie like mentality of those using the devices constantly. This is a major concern to fix.
- Discuss the 'New Plan' which may include.. (This is where participation and 'suggestions' should be invited...
-Landline for X months (Friends need to be in contact? They can call the landline... That is the ONLY option! Yes!)
-House is 100% signal free
-Read books (visti the local library)
-Art projects
-Fitness schedule (home, gym or club)
-Checking E Mails & Social Network schedules
Questions you may encounter during your meeting....
Why are you doing this to us?
Why do you get a phone?
How long will this go on?
Can I pay for my own phone plan?
Can I use the library computer?
To effectively 'rehabilitate / cure' those involved you need to be ready for withdrawal symptoms and in many cases with children, they will 'sneak' access at schools, libraries, friends houses and anywhere else they can 'get connected'. This is why the 'New Plan' is required to fill the voids in the schedule with alternatives and for the 'boss' to be strict in monitoring that those involved are in fact following the modified schedule. Keep those involved busy and active in other activities, try and team up with other parents to combine your efforts if possible.
Behaviour you may encounter during the process (after the devices are removed....
==================================
qUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF:::
dO YOU/THEY ACTUALLY NEED IT?
WHAT ARE YOU USING IT FOR?
-wORK
-pLEASURE
-uNKNOWN
iS YOUR INCOME AFFECTED IF YOU DO NOT HAVE IMMEDIATE ACCESS?
IF YOU ARE NOT CONSTANTLY ON THE ROAD FOR UBSINESS YOU IN FACT MOST LILEY DO NOT NEED IT.
IF YOU DO REQUIRE IT, HOW TO CONTROL IT?
IF YOU DON'T, WHAT ARE THE ALTERNATIVES?
-lANDLINE
-hOME CONNECTION
-sCHEDULING
iF YOU DON', HOW TO REMOVE IT EFFECTIVELY?
BENEFITS OF SCHEDULING?
Why are my children addicted to the phone
How to quickly fix child phone addiction
HOW TO QUIT TECHNOLOGY
TECHNOLOGY DETOX (100% CURE)
PARENTS GUIDE TO RESPONSIBLE TECHNOLOGY AT HOME
INTRO / BACKSTORY
---------------
As a people watcher I began noticing a strange phenomenon in 2003 overseas which was not happening in Canada at that time... People were uncontrollably it seemed looking and holding mobile phonees for no reason. I noticed each and every day on the train that impulsively upon sitting down roughly 90% of people would remove thier mobile phone, swipe it, notice nothing is ew on the screen and put it ack in theri pocket or bag... The more strange observation was within less than 90 seconds, they would again pull out the phone, swipe, look and put away again... This continued indefinitely in most cases. It was at this point I made athe conscious decision > I WOULD NOT BE A VICTIM OF WHATEVER THIS PHENOMENON WAS....
FAST FORWARD 14 YEARS AND THIS MENTALITY IS APPARENT ON A MUCH MORE CONCERNING SCALE..
SO HOW DO YOU REMOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR LOVED ONES FROM THIS TECH-RETARDATION? THE FOLLOWING NOTES WILL SHED LIGHT ON THE SOURCE OF THE PROBLEM AND THE METHODS TO FIX/CURE IT. PLEASE READ ON.
A FEW THINGS TO REMEMBER::::
yOUR THE ONE IN CHARGE OF YOUR OWN DECISIONS
yOUR THE GOOD PERSON IN THIS SCENARIO
BE PREPARED TO BE FIRM AND ACCEPT NO EXCUSES
wHAT IN GERNERAL IS HAPPENING?
"tHE DEVICES WE USE ARE BECOMING HUMANITIES LARGEST VICE"
sIGNS YOUR FAMILY IS AFFECTED...
-lACK OF CONVERSATION/COMMUICATION (IF ANY)J
-iF DEVICES(S) ARE REMOVED, EMOTIONS FLARE
-cONSTANTLY ON DEVICES
-iNABILITY TO FOCUS ON TALKS
-iRRATABLITLTY, RESTLESSNESS
iF YOU RECONIZE ANY OF THE ABOVE WITHIN YOUR ENVIRONMENT AND ARE CONCERNED... PLEASE READ ON TO THE NEXT SECTION...
WHY DOES THIS ADDICTION HAPPEN?
WHY ARE MANY HUMAN BEINGS NOT ABLE TO RESIST THE ATTRACTION?
1. FREQUENCIES
2. ATTRACTIONS
3. Fomo
4. SHAPE/fEELING
5. Emf aTTRACTION
========================================================
wHAT HAS HAPPENED?
1. DEVICES PURCHASED WITHOUT MEASURING THE CONSEQUENCES
2. ACQUIRED UNDER THE GUISE OF HELPING IN CASE OF EMERNCY WHEN IN REAQLITY THE DEVICES ARE HARMFUL TO HUMAN HEALTH (SEE OWNERS MANUAL OF YOUR DEVICE FOR CONFIRMATION)
3. PEER PRESSURES OR THE 'nORM' HAVE INFLUENCED CHILDREN AND AND PARENTS BEFORE PERCEIVING THE DANGER
4. MASS MEDIA HAS CONVINCED THE POPULATION FOR LARGE PROFITS.
'aVERAGE COST PER DEVICE= $75 PER MONTH'
'90% OF PEOPLE HAVE A MOBILE DEVICE'
sIGNS YOUR FAMILY IS AFFECTED...
-lACK OF CONVERSATION/COMMUICATION (IF ANY)J
-iF DEVICES(S) ARE REMOVED, EMOTIONS FLARE
-cONSTANTLY ON DEVICES
-iNABILITY TO FOCUS ON TALKS
-iRRATABLITLTY, RESTLESSNESS
iF YOU RECONIZE ANY OF THE ABOVE WITHIN YOUR ENVIRONMENT AND ARE CONCERNED... PLEASE READ ON TO THE NEXT SECTION...
WHY DOES THIS ACTUALLY HAPPEN?
IN SIMPLE TERMS, THEIR ARE PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL SCIENCES AT WORK. YEARS OF EXTENSIVE RESEARCH DESIGNED TO COMPEL USERS TO 'PLAY' WITH THE DEVICE ARE OBVIOUSLY BECOMING APPARENT. A BASIC LITMUS TEST TO DETERMINE IF YOUR A VICTIM IS... 'iS THE USER USING THE DEVICE AS A EFFECTIVE TOOL OR IS THE DEVICE USING THE USER...?' MOST PEOPLE CAN WITHOUT BIAS SAY THE LATTER.
BIG BUSINESS AND MEDIA HAVE ULTRA EFFECTIVELY (LITERALLY) BRAINWASHED CONSUMERS TO PURCHASE DEVICES BUILT TO SUBJUGATE THE USER MENTALLY AND SIMULTANEOUSLY USE THE DATA RETRIEVED FROM THE USERS DAILY HABITS AND BEHAVIOURS TO FURTHER EXPLOIT THE USER THROUGH THE DATA RECEIVED -
iN ESSENCE, USERS ARE PAYING TO PROVIDE THE DATA NEEDED TO PINPOINT EXACTLY WHAT TECHNOLOGIES ARE IN FACT CONTROLLING THEM.
THE ENTIRE PROCESS IS ACTUALLY QUITE BRILLIANT, AS THE ENTIRE OPERATION IS IN PLAIN SIGHT, YET NO ONE SEEMS TO NOTICE.
IN MORE BASIC TERMINOLOGY, THE DATA (THE THINGS YOU DO ON THE DEVICE) IS SENT TO THE NETWORK IN A DIGITAL FORM. THAT INFORMATION ALLOWS 'THEM' TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT USERS MORE BASED ON THE BEHAVIOURS IN THE DATA. *THIS IS ANOTHER TOPIC WHICH COULD BE A FULL VOLUME IN ITSELF....
When/If you are able to grasp the fact that devious techniques are at work against you (the user) you should feel concerned for your own well-being and health as well as those around you, who more than likely are completely oblivious.
==================================================
In the next section we look at how to minimize/detox your technology usage
============================================
how to minimise/detox your technology usage?
Assuming you are now conscious of the fact you are essentially an unconscious participant in a science experiment, we will now look towards how to ween off this addiction. There are a few realities you must come to accept during this process...
1. Realise you are in control of your actions
2. Realise this will be a mental challenge
3. You are smarter than a computer
4. You are a human, not a machine
5. You are the good person in this scenario (Although if you are the one stepping up in the family to make these changes you are about to be temporarily hated)
6. If you make excuses, you will not succeed! This is a 'cold turkey' method
Now is the time to decide what side of the fence you are on... If we can agree right now, without hesitation that the general population has an overwhelming 'problem' and you want to easily solve the problem for the benefit of yourself, your family or humanity at large then congratulations, your about to take a few simple steps that are necissary to come back to reality quickly- Be excited! There is a new beginning directly ahead!
=============================================
Steps:::
Options are provided based on specific situations below, each option will have point form steps to succeed. Following each option, detailed notes will follow with solutions for the issues you may encounter during the process as well as additional helpful insight.
Option 1. If You do not require the phones for business purposes (Primarily for children, students)
1. Disconnect plans immediately. No excuses. This includes - Internet, Cable, Wifi
2. Remove all devices (pack them up in a secure location)
3. Schedule a family meeting
Notes:::
Step 1 requires disconnection of ALL signals in the household. You may encounter 'disconnection' fees by the providers in an attempt to thwart your progress. If you encounter this please refer to the appendix for tips on dealing with this nonsense. I have included removal of the cable television, this should also be disconnected for quick and optimal results.
Step 2 requires confiscation/removal of the devices. This includes all phones active on a plan or non-active (old phones laying around) , as well as video game consoles and televisions can be removed. All modems and networking peripherals should also be removed. This is an 'out of sight, out of mind' technique which will help everyone involved. All this technology should boxed up and be moved to an external location if possible..
Step 3 requires a family meeting to be scheduled. This is normally announced on confiscation/removal of the cellular phones, as this is the most challenging portion of the curing process. During the meeting discussion topics include:
-Discuss observations including the amount of wasted time, laziness and overall excessive usage of devices in the household (citing the obvious facts will help gain acceptance) You want those involved to ultimately realise the problem they have.
-Discuss Dangers including the overall social effects everyone can see. Show warning on cellular phone manual. See appendix for a list of popular devices.
-Discuss the monetary benefits. This is a great way to gain acceptance. For example the average family has 4 devices or $300 per month for phones alone, this can be a future family after x amount of months. Alternatively this can be used for household items, clothing, education funds etc.
- Discuss behaviours including the lack of respect shown when 'interrupting' someone on the phone or the zombie like mentality of those using the devices constantly. This is a major concern to fix.
- Discuss the 'New Plan' which may include.. (This is where participation and 'suggestions' should be invited...
-Landline for X months (Friends need to be in contact? They can call the landline... That is the ONLY option! Yes!)
-House is 100% signal free
-Read books (visti the local library)
-Art projects
-Fitness schedule (home, gym or club)
-Checking E Mails & Social Network schedules
Questions you may encounter during your meeting....
Why are you doing this to us?
Why do you get a phone?
How long will this go on?
Can I pay for my own phone plan?
Can I use the library computer?
To effectively 'rehabilitate / cure' those involved you need to be ready for withdrawal symptoms and in many cases with children, they will 'sneak' access at schools, libraries, friends houses and anywhere else they can 'get connected'. This is why the 'New Plan' is required to fill the voids in the schedule with alternatives and for the 'boss' to be strict in monitoring that those involved are in fact following the modified schedule. Keep those involved busy and active in other activities, try and team up with other parents to combine your efforts if possible.
Behaviour you may encounter during the process (after the devices are removed....
==================================
qUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF:::
dO YOU/THEY ACTUALLY NEED IT?
WHAT ARE YOU USING IT FOR?
-wORK
-pLEASURE
-uNKNOWN
iS YOUR INCOME AFFECTED IF YOU DO NOT HAVE IMMEDIATE ACCESS?
IF YOU ARE NOT CONSTANTLY ON THE ROAD FOR UBSINESS YOU IN FACT MOST LILEY DO NOT NEED IT.
IF YOU DO REQUIRE IT, HOW TO CONTROL IT?
IF YOU DON'T, WHAT ARE THE ALTERNATIVES?
-lANDLINE
-hOME CONNECTION
-sCHEDULING
iF YOU DON', HOW TO REMOVE IT EFFECTIVELY?
BENEFITS OF SCHEDULING?
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